I am wonderfully blessed to be the firstborn son of a man who was an
authority figure to others throughout my life. As a newborn, my father was a
schoolteacher on an Indian reservation. As a preschooler, my father was a high
school teacher on another Indian reservation. On yet another Indian reservation
during my grade school years, my father was the administrative officer, with
all of the government employees on that reservation reporting to my dad. On yet
another Indian reservation, my dad was the superintendent of an Indian
reservation in my high school years. During his career in the Bureau of Indian Affairs,
I enjoyed observing my father functioning as a respected authority figure. I
also enjoyed watching my father, sometimes questioning authority figures in
situations where he was not the man in charge. All of this contributed to my
approach to authority.
I have been the pastor of two churches since 1978, exercising some
measure of scriptural authority in the lives of other people. I take this very
seriously and am very careful not to Lord it over God’s heritage. Since I am my
father’s son, I have enjoyed situations in which I have encountered authority
figures of some sort who misused their position and misunderstood their
function. Allow me to share with you six such experiences.
First. When my daughter was five years old, I took
her and my wife on vacation to visit all of the places I had lived growing up, except
for Florida, which was too far out of the way to see on that vacation. We left
Monrovia, California, and went to Brawley, California. After Brawley, we went to
Albuquerque, New Mexico, to show my daughter where my paternal grandparents had
lived. We then went to Wheeler, Texas, to visit my maternal grandparents’ farm
outside the little town where I was born. Heading north, we went to Cherry
Creek, South Dakota, where my father taught in a one-room schoolhouse for
several years and became acquainted with the last living survivor of the Battle
of the Little Big Horn and the last living survivor of the massacre at Wounded Knee.
We then went to Mount Rushmore on our way to Cheyenne Agency, South Dakota, and
then to Fort Totten, North Dakota.
My first clash with an authority figure took place at Mount Rushmore [pictured] when a park ranger spoke to our group of tourists and sarcastically criticized the “environmental catastrophe” that resulted from carving the faces of four American presidents on the side of a mountain. Her bitterness was undeniable. At that point, I spoke up, saying, “None of us came here to hear you say that. We came here to admire Mount Rushmore and to glory in the blessing of four great presidents. Yet you have chosen to misuse your position and subject us to your political slant, your radical environmentalism, in an attempt to destroy our experience. How dare you. You are misusing your position.” The park ranger took great offense at my comments, while several of the tourists congratulated me and expressed their appreciation that I had spoken up.
Second. Years later, I was standing in line to go
through passenger Security at Heathrow Airport outside London. On the walls, I
noticed that stickers warned travelers not to criticize uniformed personnel,
with any criticism of the uniformed personnel to be treated as criminal assault.
I thought such signage was unusual, but I took little note of it as I stepped
into line behind approximately fifty South Asian travelers. I noticed three
things about them. They were very small in stature, very dark in complexion,
and extraordinarily well-mannered and pleasant to me and everyone else.
As the line of passengers advanced, I could hear a uniformed security
officer shriek at the first of the South Asians she encountered. “Can’t any of
you read?” she asked. “Why is it always the same with you people?” she continued. Her tirade continued,
a racist rant against each South Asian in the line in front of me. I was
horrified.
I tried to figure out what her issue was with each of them. I could not
detect that they had done or said anything wrong. When the line advanced to the
point where she spoke to me, suddenly her countenance changed, her expression
changed from a scowl to a smile, and the tone of her voice was unexpectedly charming.
I asked her, “Are we having a bad day?” She looked up at me and said, “What did
you say?” I repeated, “Are we having a bad day?” I was smiling, my tone of
voice was pleasant, and my question was genuine. She did not take it that way. “Security!
Security!” she shouted. When two male uniformed officers arrived, she handed me
off to them, and they took me into an interrogation room.
They subjected me to about five minutes of examination, asking me a
dozen or so questions. My answers to their questions were very calm, unhurried,
and reassuring. “I simply asked her if she was having a bad day.” Eventually,
they turned me out of the room. Since I still had a couple of hours before my
connecting flight, I decided to deal with her problem.
I looked around to find out which door the uniformed personnel went
through when they went on break. I continued to observe that door until a “suit”
exited the door. If ever you have a problem and have the opportunity to deal
with the problem, I learned from my father’s example that you should always
talk to one of the “suits.” I walked up to the “suit” and very politely asked
him if he could spare me a minute or two. He was very kind and responsive.
Rather than accuse the woman of wrongdoing, I chose a different approach.
She had spoken so harshly to the South Asians and had reacted so negatively to
my question that I knew the “suit” would disapprove of her conduct. I asked the
“suit” to review the tape at her workstation from the time she spoke to me,
backing up about 10 minutes to observe how she dealt with the people in front
of me. He assured me that he would do that after I pointed out that I did not
think Heathrow airport wanted any of their travelers subjected to a racist
rant. He agreed. He also thanked me. I assume he dealt with the problem, and it
would not soon be repeated.
Third. On yet another occasion, my wife and daughter, and I were in Sitka, Alaska. We decided to visit the birds of prey sanctuary, one of two facilities in North America where injured birds of prey worked on by very skilled veterinarians [pictured]. As a ranger was taking us on a tour through their facility, she indicated to my group as she pointed out a huge golden eagle, “This bird will never be introduced into the wild. It is a casualty of the intrusion of man.”
What? The intrusion of man? What does that mean? So, I asked her. She
said something about the intrusion of man being mankind intruding into the
environment. I thought, “Here we go again, pushing a political agenda.”
“Can you tell me precisely how that bird was injured?” I asked her. She
paused for a bit and then said, “The bird flew into a powerline tower.” I
sought clarification. “The bird flew into a stationary structure?” I asked. “Yes,”
she answered. I then said, “The intrusion of man did not cause that bird’s
injury, but its stupidity.” Needless to say, while she was furious with me, I
received several congratulatory remarks from the other tourists in the group.
Fourth. A situation unfolded some years ago as I led
a group of teenagers on an annual tour of Washington, DC and New England to
cultivate their appreciation of our nation’s history and the arrival of the Pilgrims.
We were touring the Plymouth Plantation, a place where actors reenact life as
it was lived by those who arrived on the Mayflower, as well as the Native
Americans they encountered. However, one Native American actor chose the
opportunity to go on a racist rant against white Europeans for daring to come
to North America.
Growing up in Indian reservations, I am quite familiar with Native
American history. I could not allow the Native American actor to proceed with
such an error in front of my teens without responding. I pointed out to him that
the place the Pilgrims arrived was uninhabited since those who previously had
lived in the region had been decimated by some plague, which was not the fault
of the Pilgrims.
I further pointed out that the Native Americans who moved back into the
area generally had excellent relations with the Pilgrims, and they interacted
with each other very well. Of course, problems later developed with later
arrivals into the area from both groups who sought only to stir up trouble.
When there is a 7000-year technological disparity between one culture
and another, there will be severe problems in the best of circumstances. It is
unavoidable. However, for the most part, the Pilgrims and later Puritans sought
the conversion of the Native Americans to Christ. That is a good thing. I don’t
think he agreed with me, but it needed to be said to benefit my teens.
Fifth. I recall an occasion when I was in Washington, DC, alone. With a bit of spare time on my hands, I decided to ride the tram around Arlington National Cemetery and across the river to the Vietnam Memorial site [pictured]. There were very few people on the tram, so I decided to sit at the very back, where there was only one other younger man, who by the kind of glasses he wore and his hairstyle was very obviously military. For those of you who are not familiar, the tram driver is a tour guide who wears a microphone and makes comments while driving the tram by historical landmarks.
Only this tram driver was a vitriolic hater, who spewed venom as we
passed by the wall memorializing our nation’s dead in Vietnam, referring to
them as “baby killers.” I did not like what I heard. I turned to the man
sitting to my right on the other side of the aisle and said, “What she says
offends me. Does it offend you, as well?” “Yes, sir,” he said. “I am very
offended.” I said to him, “You are obviously military. What is your service?”
He responded, “Sir, I am a major in the United States Army, and I serve as a
tank commander. What she said, I find very offensive.”
I then told the much younger than me major, “I am not going to let this
go. I’m gonna deal with this.” He then asked me if he could accompany me on my
mission to deal with that problem, and I said, “Yes.” We stayed on the tram
until it returned to its point of origin near the Arlington National Cemetery
entrance. I then began to check out where the drivers went when they left the
tram, figuring that would be where the “suits” can be found. You always want to
talk to the “suits.”
You can imagine, at this point, what I did. A man walked out the door
wearing a very nice suit. The major and I approached him and asked him if he
had time to speak to us. I related to the “suit” what the tram driver had said,
and the major backed me up all the way. The “suit” assured me he would deal
with the issue because “That is not the kind of experience we want anyone
writing our tram to have.” He then thanked me and headed back to the office
through the door our tram driver had walked through. I feel confident that tram
driver/guide would be unlikely to disparage our Vietnam War dead again soon. As
we parted company, the young major was very appreciative.
Sixth. My final anecdote took place in the Capitol rotunda, yet another trip
with our Christian high school students to develop an appreciation for our
nation’s history. The tour guide (these problems frequently arise with tour
guides for some reason) leading our group said, “The Capitol rotunda was built
during the presidency of George Washington.”
I could not allow that misstatement to go by without correction. The students in our Christian school are taught accurate US history. My teens knew that the presidency of George Washington took place in the temporary capital of New York City, not Washington, DC. The Capitol rotunda [pictured] was built after George Washington had died. I said to her when she paused, “Excuse me, but that is not true.”
She took offense, of course, and insisted that the Capitol rotunda was built during the presidency of George
Washington. I said to her, “I mean no offense. I have no desire to embarrass
you in front of other people. But most of the people in the group you are
leading know that you are mistaken. I spoke up only
because these are rather important historical facts to know, and it is
surprising that since you do this for a living, you don’t know the facts.” Once
more, members of the group thanked me for insisting on accuracy.
I try to be nice. I don’t want to offend anybody. I want to get along
with people, if at all possible. However, I am my father’s son, and I cannot
stand by while those who occupy positions of authority or who officially
dispense information misuse their position to misinform, disparage, or belittle
others.
I am wondering if we Americans ought to cultivate our willingness to
speak up when it is appropriate to do so.